A Better You: Why Anger is Essential to Healthy Relationships 2952 Reads
	By Kevin B. Burk -  http://www.EveryRelationship.com Many of us have some very definite ideas about anger. We see anger as destructive and hurtful. We consider it to be an inappropriate response. We equate anger with violence. In short, we feel that anger is simply wrong, and that when we experience anger, there's something wrong with us. Anger isn't nice. Anger isn't polite. And anger certainly isn't our friend. Anger can be all of these things. But anger is also useful, necessary and even healing. We need our anger. We simply need to learn how to express our anger in appropriate, conscious, supportive ways. On its own, anger is neither good nor bad. It can be used to hurt, or it can be used to heal. It may not be a particularly pleasant emotion, but it's an important one. And anger--or rather the skillful use and understanding of anger--is essential to creating healthy relationships. Posted by: ASUService on Tuesday, April 12, 2005 Read more...  8583 bytes more comments?

	A Better You: Money Matters: Strengthen Your Marriage by Putting Finances in Order 4276 Reads
	Copyright © 2005 Cynthia Cooper, Ph.D. The Marriage Medics - http://www.themarriagemedics.org Did you know that 43% of all married couples argue over money issues, making it the major reason couples fight? If you and your spouse handle money differently, now is the time to talk, establish expectations, and draw up a financial plan. Money is a very big part of a marriage. Having enough to spend, and to do the things each wants to do, is important to both parties. When couples are not able to do that, then other issues pop up in the relationship. When husband and wife are not on the same page as far as family finances go, other difficulties inevitably arise. Posted by: ASUService on Thursday, March 31, 2005 Read more...  2859 bytes more comments?

	A Better You: Here are the 16 rules I try to live by: 1533 Reads
	Copyright © 2004 - 2005 Bob Parsons All rights reserved. 1. Get and stay out of your comfort zone. I believe that not much happens of any significance when we’re in our comfort zone. I hear people say, “But I’m concerned about security.” My response to that is simple: “Security is for cadavers.” 2. Never give up. Almost nothing works the first time it’s attempted. Just because what you’re doing does not seem to be working, doesn’t mean it won’t work. It just means that it might not work the way you’re doing it. If it was easy, everyone would be doing it, and you wouldn’t have an opportunity. 3. When you’re ready to quit, you’re closer than you think. There’s an old Chinese saying that I just love, and I believe it is so true. It goes like this: “The temptation to quit will be greatest just before you are about to succeed.” 4. With regard to whatever worries you, not only accept the worst thing that could happen, but make it a point to quantify what the worst thing could be. Very seldom will the worst consequence be anywhere near as bad as a cloud of “undefined consequences.” My father would tell me early on, when I was struggling and losing my shirt trying to get Parsons Technology going, “Well, Robert, if it doesn’t work, they can’t eat you.” 5. Focus on what you want to have happen. Remember that old saying, “As you think, so shall you be.” Posted by: ASUService on Monday, February 14, 2005 Read more...  3934 bytes more comments?

	A Better You: When You do not Feel Like Working. 2233 Reads
	By Nenad Ristic You know the feeling... You have just had a hard day at your full-time job, and come home, and working on your own business seems like just too much of an effort. Of course, if you can devote your full time to your business, it still does not prevent you from having some days when you just do not feel like working. In this article, you can learn why this happens, what you can do to prevent it, and how to get yourself going when it does. I have found the “I do not feel like working” feeling may come from several causes, and to deal with it effectively, you will need to discover the reason for it. Posted by: ASUService on Wednesday, June 23, 2004 Read more...  5845 bytes more comments?

	A Better You: Balancing your Home Business Priorities with your Family's Needs. 1871 Reads
	Copyright © Stone Evans, The Home Biz Guy - http://www.Home-Business.com  Operating a home business is seldom easy and interruptions come in all shapes, sizes and forms. Between the family, friends and neighbors who call or come by, and the telemarketers who insist on ringing your number off the hook, getting through the workday can be a real challenge. When you introduce children into the home office environment, your productivity and patience can be seriously tested. For example, right now my three-year old daughter is pulling on my shirt and begging me to read her a story. Clearly, I'm in the middle of something important here, but how can I say no to those eyes? Ill be right back... Posted by: ASUService on Saturday, June 19, 2004 Read more...  5834 bytes more comments?